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[SoldierDad]

I agree, with the part about things aren't as bad as they seem.

I mean, how should I look at the fact that she wanted to meet me, wanted me to go with her to the house, etc? Was it just a last ditch effort to hurt me, or see if she still had her reigns on me?

I don't know, I think it might have been to see where I was as far as caring about her, but then all the old emotions came back as we talked and I was pushing for her to end the A, and explain things that I knew she was doing.

My issue is I need to know WHY? I need to know WHAT? You know?

I think she sees that as controlling/obsessiveness - I dunno.