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[courageous wife]

Ok...tried to keep busy today and have done pretty good until now so thought I better get on here and get grounded again. Kids, S14 and D11 seem to be handling things well so that helps. Have some questions for anyone... H has not called yet. I haven't spoken with him since Wed. pm. He did call the kids Thur morning but that is the last we have heard from him.

I plan to agree with him that what I did was wrong when/if he confronts me about making the phone calls to OW and think I will say that I am ashamed that I allowed myself to drop down to their level. Does this sound ok?

Second, I have only spoken of our problems with the girls I work with. No family members have a clue as to what has been going on. My SS and his family often stop by after church on Sunday and am wondering what I should say to them when they ask where H is? Do I expose all or just some and let H tell them? Also, we live in a very small town and neighbors will notice H's truck not here.

Would really appreciate any feedback...I am finally ready to listen!