I have wondered this myself. I then realized that we may never know the 'why' and that letting it go, is the only way to move past it.
I think for guys... No, not guys, Men, like us, who may have a 'fix it' mindset, we always want to understand the 'why' even when we can't, and that is something in ourselves that is hard to overcome.
But overcome it we must, or we only cause more pain to ourselves. Hang in there, you'll be fine.
Just noticed my answer to you never appeared. Must've forgot to hit "Submit"
Anyway, it was along the lines of: Wow. Right on target. A wisdom-nugget. Thank you.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
