Originally Posted By: Dane
Norm,
Please share more on what you read in the book. We all could benefit from your new wisdom and different POV.

Happy New Year


Happy New Year to you, Dane!

I will be glad to share as the opportunity arises. The book is not at all at odds with DB or DR. It just focuses specifically on infidelity. For example, Huizenga closes with these suggestions – each followed with a short paragraph that I won’t take the time to quote:

1. Act happy. Fake it if you have to.
2. Get a life.
3. Focus on 4 key words: I WILL MAKE IT.
4. To-the-point small talk. Keep conversations short and to the point.
5. Tend to agree. “I understand”.
6. Expand social relationships.
7. Get sexy. Work out, look good, etc.


H: 50
W: 48
Married 20 years
Bomb and separation: 9/12/09
A discovered 12/02/09
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