Side note: That was one thing I was able to avoid this whole time- the girl on girl scene. H pushed hard for a FMF over the years, but uh-uh, nope, not interested, I held my ground on that one...
See? You can hold your ground. You've already proven it. Hold your ground with H. Be true to yourself and avoid the whole "scene", all "scenes".
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
H pushed hard for a FMF over the years, but uh-uh, nope, not interested, I held my ground on that one... 
