Doc, mountain climbing, Hummer tours, etc...? Those are not exactly something you'd just go sign up for alone. Wouldn't you want to share the adrenaline pump w/someone else? I get it re: activities sharing vs. straying for sex. Sounds like you two have some work to do.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.