It sounds like you handled it beautifully, cutter. Very gracious and taking the high ground to stop the insults.

I don't think it is bizarre at all that some friends cried with you and hugged you. They are your friends.

I hope you had a good day today.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process