W did come home at 7:30 PM last night after stopped by a supermarket, so she didn't come to a New Year Eve party as guessed.
We have not slept in the same bed for 2 days.
I went to a gym this morning and came back at 10:15 AM. Said Happy New Year to W with a smiling face. She said Happy New Year back to me too. Since then, I kept myself busy with kids and my things and didn't talk to her that much. Remember I'm working on detachment and have given her space. She left house at 4:30 PM with D9 to her shop to fix our bed lining. I bet she'll meet up with OM because he just called her. Our home number is her business number, so she always forwards our home phone to her cell phone. I'll tell her about the 2-week notice tonight unless someone else thinks differently. I was about to tell her before her leaving this afternoon, but didn’t because I think the timing wasn’t quite right (note: she told me twice about D and the paper is ready for me to sign). If I tell her tonight, I think I may need to find someplace to sleep to avoid any confrontation?
This is what I’m going to tell her:
“W,
I know you are unhappy in our relationship. I’m willing to work on M. However, you need to end your A within 2 weeks. If not, I will pack all your belongings and put them in the font yard and you need to move out.”
Our house is a townhouse. The basement and garage are under the ground. I plan to buy a big tent to set it up in the font yard and have her stuff in there.
My second step is working on busting the A. Still find way to get a number of OM’s mama. I have thought about OM’s ex-wife. A little bit about her is that she used to work for him as a paralegal assistant. She was divorced before with her two owned Ds. The OM and his ex adopted a son. My wife was asked for a couple of time going with OM to pick up the adopted son with the OM before the A when they were still client relationship. He represented W in a personal injury case and he was also W’s customer. He just wanted to show off his ex. If his ex knows her ex’s adultery relationship she could spread out to someone they both have known. Is it possible?
Just have a quick question:
Should I need to check her e-mail or messages to get more info? I have stopped two months ago because of thinking that the lesser I know the better.
Thank you.
Know what you need and happy with what you've gotten.
