I've been trying to be distant, but in a very non-emotional way. Trying to convey an image of I don't care what you do v. I'm angry/hurt/resentful.
Good job. The next, important stage of detachment. Strength to you and success with the plans you're formulating. Happy/different/better New Year to you.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac