Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Originally Posted By: Gardener

How does a person simply discard a loved one?


I choose to think of it as letting them go, not throwing them away. If they come back, then it's up to us to decide if we want them back. If not, we haven't lost anything.


I think Gardener was saying that he is the one being discarded, not the other way around.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."