Serenity my friend... do NOT let that man have that much power in your life to cause you to hate the year already. Continue to TAKE IT BACK! Take the power and control over your own life back from him! I don't understand what would possess a man to do that, but that is not for you to figure out. Release that to God. I am glad your S is home... having teens I can completely understand what you might have been going thru. He obviously needs you right now. Let that be your focus instead of your H.
I am praying for you today. This can still be your year (((serenity)))!