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Originally Posted By: Serenity13


Thanks to Kara, I have been shoe shopping and loving it I may add...Found a pair of you know what pumps, black, 4 inches high which makes me stand at 6'2 - Now I need an outfit to go around my shoes...I am loving life today and my plan is to go out tonight and enjoy it to the fullest! smile smile smile


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All the best to you in the new year my friend! This will be a better year for us all! Cheers and blessings!

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(((Rocked)))

All the best to you as well my friend!

2010 is our year and we may as well start taking it back tonight! smile

Cheers and Blessings to you also!


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((((SERENITY)))

Best wishes for a happy and healthy 2010 to you and everyone reading this post. We are TAKING IT BACK in 2010. I have never been so glad to see a year end!!!!Whooohooo!!! I choose to move forward in faith and not fear. God is STILL in control.

I am so happy to hear that you are contributing to the economy by getting in on the shoe thing!!! I ust say that it is mighty considerate of you. I wonder if there is a correlation between killer shoes and women taking it back? Hmmm.

Be blessed, all.


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Here is a way to start the New Year...

My H has changed banks and cut all finances from the boys and I...

And my oldest S is missing...Hasn't been seen since last night.

Now what do I do?


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Re the bank and finances - are you ready to take legal steps?

Re your missing son - I hope you have located him by the time this is posted. Please keep us posted.


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(((Kara)))

Thanks for coming by...
S just walked in the door so I will deal with him shortly...
I guess I don't have a choice anymore...
Once again he took the choice out of my hands and once again I find myself drifting in the darkness...
What kind of father cuts off all finances to their kids?
Happy Friggen New Year.
I hate 2010 already.


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I am glad that he came in.

I can only imagine how you must feel. I obviously do not know your H but I believe that he has unresolved issues and needs to talk to somebody. I believe that you were not ready to take legal steps but with children involved in the mix, he has to meet his obligations.

We are not going to think about hating 2010. It has only just started. You know where to go when you start to drift into the darkness. You will start to see the light.


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We are not going to think about hating 2010. It has only just started. You know where to go when you start to drift into the darkness. You will start to see the light.


Kara is right. 2010 has barely started; this is just a stumble coming out of the gate.

You do what you have to do to take care of yourself and your kids.


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M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
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Serenity,

Glad your S made it home. I am sorry about your H cutting off the finances. I don't know why a man would walk away from supporting their kids but so many inexplicably do. It sounds like maybe some legal steps do need to be taken.

(((hugs)))


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Originally Posted By: Serenity13

Happy Friggen New Year.
I hate 2010 already.


Serenity my friend... do NOT let that man have that much power in your life to cause you to hate the year already. Continue to TAKE IT BACK! Take the power and control over your own life back from him! I don't understand what would possess a man to do that, but that is not for you to figure out. Release that to God.
I am glad your S is home... having teens I can completely understand what you might have been going thru. He obviously needs you right now. Let that be your focus instead of your H.

I am praying for you today. This can still be your year (((serenity)))!

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