Also...it is common for people who have been sexually abused to become sex addicts. It would seem logical that these people would avoid sex, and some do...but many turn to sex because the abuse was the only way they could receive love
Bulls-eye. I still equate sex with love from H. This occurred to me too while writing out the previous posts (I saw what I wrote about "don't like but doing it anyway" and knew what that meant) and it scared the cr@p out of me.
DQ, you hit it on the head and that is what I inartfully tried to get at:
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It seems to me that the main issue right now, and possibly the reason you are dating, is you are seeking your happiness from others - whether you wanting them to make you happy or you thinking you can gain happiness by giving them what they want. And you will not gain happiness that way.
