Also...it is common for people who have been sexually abused to become sex addicts. It would seem logical that these people would avoid sex, and some do...but many turn to sex because the abuse was the only way they could receive love
Bulls-eye. I still equate sex with love from H. This occurred to me too while writing out the previous posts (I saw what I wrote about "don't like but doing it anyway" and knew what that meant) and it scared the cr@p out of me.
