Yikes! Need help, please.

[mindfull]

Hi SadGirl! HUGS!!! Your son is cute re:not playing Barbies! Haha. And, good luck w/the hair straightening! Hope you have a Chi w/those heads of gorgeous curls!

Happy New Year, friend!

[Super Girl]

(((Norm)))

Thanks for the support. The firsts are so hard, aren't they?

I keep telling myself that even though he is gone, I'm not alone. I have you guys, my kids, my friends, and my parents.

I am healthy (ish), my kids are healthy, and I need to celebrate that. My life really isn't that bad when I think about it.

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((Super Girl)))))

A bit late to the party, but better than never!

[Super Girl]

Hi SadGirl! HUGS!!! Your son is cute re:not playing Barbies! Haha. And, good luck w/the hair straightening! Hope you have a Chi w/those heads of gorgeous curls!

Happy New Year, friend!

He's very "male". It kind of freaks me out...still. lol He does and says the craziest things. We went to Six Flags, and he was getting into one of those cars you can drive with his sisters. He says...scoot over so I can drive. Men drive. So funny!

Yes, I have a Chi. That is a must with all this hair. My middle girl literally looks like cousin It when her is down and straight.

[Super Girl]

For some crazy reason, when I try to reply to a quote, my cursor bounces around.

Sunny, no, you didn't make me feel worse. My D10 came up and asked what I was smiling about. I feel much better. I haven't studied affairs, but I've learned a lot here. I don't think he is involved with anyone, but he might be hoping to once it's all over. So far nothing has been out of the ordinary.

[Norm914]

Yes, and I know better. I won't do it.

He thinks H might be feeling differently, but because he thinks I have someone else, and don't care about H anymore, H will move on too.

I don't have a man. (I wish. lol)

I'm all for mystery, but I am torn. He stopped acting like an ass when he started thinking I had a man. If I don't come clean, he will think I spent the weekend ... someone else.

That's not mystery. It's suicide.

Know exactly how you feel, SG. Spouse thinking you have someone else seems like a ticket out of guiltville for him/her. Been there. I know my W and she is dying for any relief from her guilt.

But here’s the deal. You don’t want him coming back because he feels guilty. That’ll never work in the end, right? He’ll do it grudgingly and in time things will go right back to the way they are now.

As hard as it is to do, don’t worry about what he thinks. You can’t control it and it trying will only make you crazy.

[Super Girl]

I'm trying not to worry about what he thinks. If he has someone, it won't last. He's a manchild. lol

[Super Girl]

Hello friends, it's me, the whiner. I'm working on packing the rest of H's stuff today. All of his stuff should be out by the end of the week.

So now, I feel kind of sad again. How can I possibly get things back on track when we are almost totally separate now?

Plus, I had one of those "dreams" about him, and I'm feeling a little frustrated. My friends tell me I should have been born a man.

On a more positive note, my D12 is making me watch a Dance Your Ass Off marathon, and her comments are cracking me up.

[givingitmyall]

Hello friends, it's me, the whiner. I'm working on packing the rest of H's stuff today. All of his stuff should be out by the end of the week.

So now, I feel kind of sad again. How can I possibly get things back on track when we are almost totally separate now?

Plus, I had one of those "dreams" about him, and I'm feeling a little frustrated. My friends tell me I should have been born a man.

On a more positive note, my D12 is making me watch a Dance Your Ass Off marathon, and her comments are cracking me up.

Out of your control SG. All you can do is work on you. Whether he comes to his senses or not is in his hands.

Stay busy with tou D.

[Super Girl]

I know, GIMA. I feel a little Kevinesque today. Once all of his stuff is out, it feels kind of final. I know it can all be brought back, but I feel like it's another nail in the coffin.

My kids are hilarious. Now they are watching a show about pregnancy. D8 comments on the baby's fast heart rate. D10 says...it's fast because the baby is in the mom thinking where the heck am I? How do I get out? Then the babies realizes HOW they get out and the heart rate spins out of control.

At this point, I tell them to change the channel. lol