Yay! Congratulations on putting yourself first and setting up some boundaries *for yourself*. It always feels so good to take action.
I have a friend who told me a saying from Bolivia:
Little step by little step, we go far.
Congratulations on your little step.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!