Kerry,

I have to say that I'm in agreement that you need to let XW know it bothers you and that the kids have said they feel uncomfortable calling him that.

In the end, you'd prefer to allow the kids to refer to him in the way that works best for them, but you also know that is something you can't control.

However, she should be set straight that you aren't happy w/what she's doing.

Regardless, in the end, the kids will never forget who the "real" dad is, but you still need to get your point across to XW.

RTL

M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08