Are your initials really SOB? Hmm. So, about this dancing thing. C'mon. Let the woman dance the way she likes. And you dance the way you like. Holding hands when you dance one way and she dances another just won't work, except for momentary contact. My H and I have the same problem. I have a lifetime of dance behind me. i taught it for 25 years. He can't seem to find the beat. But he understands that when the music plays I want to be out there dancing. So he does it, his way. And I don't try to make him dance my way. this is a power struggle that we had to let go of to get along. And by the way, no one is watching you.
As for the sex, well, you have a good excuse. Sick is sick. You went out, you danced, I think you did a lot for a sick guy. i hope you get a raincheck on the teddy.
