I knew that five years ago when all this stuff happened that one day I would make sense out of it all. I remember sitting on my neighbor's front step and looking at her in the eye and said, "Once I figure all this stuff out (MLC, the big D, basically, living a better life) I am going to help people."
I saw her over the summer and told her what I was doing. She reminded me of that night in 2004. "Wow," I thought,"finally is starting to make sense!"
So, that is where I am at in my life right now. How we live each day is a choice - are we going to be happy or mad, sad or hopeful. Not all decisions are easy and I do have my days. But each day I have to make a choice on how I choose to live it - no matter what deck I have been dealt. (And it isn't always peaches and cream.
I have to catch up on your sitch but you do sound terrific from the few posts I have read. So glad to see that you are on the boards helping the newbies. That is what is all about.
Happy 2010, BND. May this be a year full of love and peace.
xoxoxo MTN
*I posted a new blog on how to get through the holidays if you want to check it out - divorcesolutionsforyou - (google it and add the word "wordpress:). Let me know what you all think!! Would love your feedback!!
