I can only imagine how you must feel. I obviously do not know your H but I believe that he has unresolved issues and needs to talk to somebody. I believe that you were not ready to take legal steps but with children involved in the mix, he has to meet his obligations.
We are not going to think about hating 2010. It has only just started. You know where to go when you start to drift into the darkness. You will start to see the light.
