Ring On or Ring Off????

[ddstartingover]

I reluctantly shipped H a text and told him he was welcome to join us for dinner last night. He declined----plans with his band buddies----two long time single/divorced men. I'm more and more convinced that he enjoys the life he's made for himself way too much to return to a life of family obligations. He enjoys the kids when it's "his time," but he has his new group of single men that he spends time with----and I don't know, they may be all similarly situated. I also still question if he's with OW. I somehow need to find a way to really let him go. He's already gone, really. I know that. I still miss what we had for SO long, and miss what we were supposed to have-----forever.