OK SD, get off the "stupid" train. Sh!t happens... then we deal with it. You're still in control. You changing tack now will give her a WTF moment. Which isn't bad at all. Turn this around in your own favor.
Sure there might be a legal hiccup, and you'll have to live with that. Other than that, as you can see, many fall for this. What makes you think that you're different? You wanted to believe her, no one can fault you on that.
In fact, with all the spew she was throwing, none of us saw that coming or else we would have warned you about it.
Yep. SYOP beating yourself up. Learn from it, don't do it again, but LET IT GO.
Let's try to turn this negative into a positive. You don't know what is in her head. She may be having teh same types of thoughts as you - are we ok, is he going to take me back. So, let's us this to your advantage.
Which means, get back on task with the exact same plan you had before the ML.
Give her the WTF moment. But you just slept with me, so I thought everything was ok. Well, while ML was nice, I think it was the wrong thing to do. So, I have decided that will not happen again until I am comfrotable with where I want to go with the M. And I'm just going to have to give that some thought. I'll get back with you on that.
