Ok, the holidays are officially over. Now we can get back to 'normal'..whatever that is. I got my tree down yesterday and now all that is left are the outside lights that my son will take down when he gets back on Sunday.
Last night went better than I thought. I went to a quick dinner with a gf and her kids and then came home. She is the one I mentioned a few weeks ago with the alcoholic husband and the twin babies. She seems to be doing well and putting up boundaries. No file for D yet, but she is headed that way. She feels a strong conviction to not D because of her faith. I get that. I feel horrible for getting a D...like I let God, my children, and myself down.
Exh sent a text early evening asking what we were doing for the night. I said we hadn't decided yet. He said 'have fun' and never heard from him again. I did notice that MOW was off his FB again.
Getting back on schedule starting today. I will be civil and friendly, but not going to allow him to walk all over our schedule anymore. Holidays are over...time to see if it was just holiday blues for him.
Here is to a great 2010 for all of us!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
