H'mama! I feel for you, and wish so much for you and your D. Sometimes, we are in the dunes of a dust-like life ... the sun is beating down, and there seems like there is just the two of you trudging through the sand. But, suddenly, you will come upon an oasis and you will wonder why you were worried. Life is like that, isn't it?! Once in the oasis, you will relax in the coolness of the shade of the trees, and drink in the water of love and companionship which you both deserve. What luxury it seems like now?! But, I have no doubt that if you continue to forge ahead with the courage that you have shown us ... all of this will be yours in time, and more.
But, I understand being in this wilderness. I have been there. It sucks!!!! I wish it over for you and your D in 2010.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim