Hi Upside, Great to hear an update from you. Did you have your kids for Christmas? Hope you had an enjoyable holiday, even without your H around.
You have handled your situation so well for so long. I also think now is a good time to take a step back. Think about if you are really going to follow through with being done with H if he doesn't move in with you. Sounds like you are still willing to give him some time, which is probably what he needs.
