1 thing YOU WILL DEFINITELY CHANGE or DO in 2010!

[Inpainstill]

A happy new year to one and all on this site for me im going to change my attitude my outlook and seek to find the inner man my wife fell in love with outgoing and fun to be around.And i wish an hope the best for everybody here God bless.

[antlers]

Great idea robx.

My change is actually something I have learned here already but bears repeating. I refuse to be afraid of anything in 2010..or afterwards.

-Not afraid to confront adversity.
-Not afraid to confront what I feel is wrong.
-Not afraid to push myself out of my comfort zone.
-Not afraid to challenge myself at work.
-Not afraid to love again.
-Not afraid of being afraid.

Ya' know, GIMA's post got me to thinkin'...I'm an ER nurse, and I give injections to (and start IV's on) kids every day. They're scared, and I tell them this...

"If you're afraid of something, that makes it hurt worse. So the best thing to do is to not be afraid of it in the first place."

I've been telling em' that for 23 years, and it mostly works.

It's just as applicable to us as it is to them!

No fear!

[Norm914]

- with all the people that post advice on this forum, this should give you a clue that alot of people are willing to help if you allow them, heck even if someone acts as a sounding board when you need to talk out loud, that's extremely helpful, in the end don't be afraid to ask for help, the worst thing that could happen is that people can say NO but if you don't ask for help you are just saying NO to yourself

Happy New Year Norm ;-)

Thanks, Rob!! :-)

[Norm914]

Norm, please continue to post. We are all here to support each other. We can learn from your sitch too.

Will do, SG!! Hugs!

[mnt_dreams]

here's mine, from a new plaque I have in my bedroom:

let go
fear less
love more

[Gnosis]

Here's one of mine:

I will learn to start putting the toilet seat down after use.

[givingitmyall]

Here's one of mine:

I will learn to start putting the toilet seat down after use.

Don't do it. That's "Nice Guy" behavior! We must take back control of the toilet seat.

[SpyBunny]

Does that mean we get the TV remote control in exchange?

[patpat]

Happy New year All

I WILL continue to love my W unconditionally
I WILL continue with positive changes in my behavior
I WILL continue to work on my M
I WILL continue believing
I WILL be the best father, husband, and friend to all I can possibly be..

[4luv]

Happy New Year:

I will keep Christ as the focus of my life in everything that I do
I will learn to LET GO of things that I cannot control (which includes everybody and everything but myself)
I will not be so hard on myself when I make a mistake
I will pray more
I will love my baby boy and create stability for him
I will love myself and not except anyone disrespecting me
I will be more honest with people about how I feel
I will get in shape