Congratulations SD, you've been "tagged." Don't worry, you haven't let anyone down. This has happened to others and is not unusual.
Ever wonder how devious women can be? Well... now you know.
NOTHING'S CHANGED
A WAW doesn't "come to her senses" overnight. Especially a day or two before you're leaving. Especially after a "wonderful weekend with Mr Texas Millionaire.
All she did was leave her mark on you to keep you in line.
Why?
That's anyone's guess. My guess is: You wrecked the OM#1 relationship with the guy in the barracks. He's probably running scared and told her to hit the road. Then OM#2 (Mr Texan) got the lay he wanted, smelt a rat, and sent her packing too. So, what's a girl to do? Um... yeah... SH!T!!! I gotta get SD back on the rails so he stops rocking the boat while I hunt out OM#3 or 4 or 5 or whatever...
Your W is playing you! Get checked for STD's immediately. There's no knowing what kind of a parting gift she gave you. And, yeah, that was a dumb mistake. LEARN FROM IT.
You want my opinion? Inform your lawyer about it. NOTHING'S CHANGED. You go back to your previous plans. If she asks you what the heck is going on? Why did you sleep with her? Blah, blah, blah... You tell her, "Sorry, that was a mistake. Right now I'm not sure how I feel about you. I need to see how I feel." Someone will have better lines for you... it's late here and I've just come back from a beach party.
Keep holding the line. Don't forget the golden rule: CHEATERS LIE!
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
