gima,
Great advice-thanks.

Oh, I think I've learned, but the hard way.

After talking with her, I do beleive she does want to work on the M. BUT, she seems to want everything on her terms, and that just isn't going to be possible in my eyes.

I wanted to add. The day I flew, W took me to the airport, got a visitor pass to come upstairs with me to the terminal, and sat with me for 45 minutes over Tea and coffee. We cried some more, and then when we began boarding, she wouldn't let me go. She squeezed me so tight, and looked into my eyes and said she was so sorry for all of this. I dunno, she seemed so genuine.

But now that I am away again, I am thinking she might want to go back to her old ways-not ready to give it up yet-I am just guessing here. Out of sight-Out of mind you know?


"embrace the suck" - Coach
"don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy
Let Go and Let God
Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010

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