I understand and respect that. Up until a short time ago, I would not encourage it at all. What I am saying here is that if your W has any of her feelings left whatsoever, then human nature dictates that showing your attention to another female will spur emotions in your W. You see it as "dating" and being wrong while you are legally M. I am not telling you to get into another R with a woman, but if you just had a female friend to go to dinner or a show with.
About three weeks ago -- when I was in full snoop mode -- I left my Facebook page up at the house. I'm over there after school and the girls use my FB to play Farmville, Yoville and the like.
Normally, I make sure the after-school lady shuts it down. This time, I didn't remind her.
The next day I checked her computer history and she'd gone over my entire FB site. She checked out messages between me and a lady friend from before Thanksgiving. We were going to an event as friends along with two others. If you didn't know that, it could look like a date.
She then went to my friend's page and then checked out all of her photos.
I thought that was interesting.
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