is NOT good. You need to let your L know this happened. I don't know about your state, but in mine, this has the potential to erase everything you had on her to position yourself in your D. And I fear, hope and pray, she did not do this for that very reason. But, I'm concerned about this.
Sorry, but I have to smack you again. Tell me. What did she do to earn you back? To earn your trust, respect, love? It doesn't sound like anything. And if she doesn't have to earn you back, she knows she has you.
The fact she refuses to acknowledge any fault for where your M is is very troubling. That, coupled with her apparent 180 during your last call with her.
Man, I am offering criticism to help you here. You can't unring the bell. But, like Puppy suggested, this just doesn't pass the smell test.
