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G, Rocked, GIMA,

I know you all are right. I will try not to disappoint you.

I think I can, I think I can, I think I can....


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gima,
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
I know in my case, I had shut off so many things around me because they were different or I was "too old" to do those things or I couldn't b/c M'd people didn't do those things. Well, I have reacquainted myself through this awful process with what it means to be alive. And I don't ever plan on leaving that again.
Good for you! Well put. Once again, you give me food for thought - and inspiration.


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I will try not to disappoint you.


You don't owe US anything. Just don't disappoint the most important person...yourself. You owe it to yourself to grow and overcome this challenge.


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Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
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I will try not to disappoint you.


You don't owe US anything. Just don't disappoint the most important person...yourself. You owe it to yourself to grow and overcome this challenge.


Ditto.
All the best for you in the new year Mo3! I am in your corner! smile

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I understand. I guess what I was trying to say is that I hear what all of you are telling me and agree 100%. Everything that you are telling me is the same adivce I would offer to others. Therefore, disappoiting you would also be a disappointment to myself.

I am just counting on all of you to push me out of my comfort zone. It is not easy for me to socialize or express my feelings. I am a very private person and would much rather be a wallflower in social settings.


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Originally Posted By: motherof3
II am just counting on all of you to push me out of my comfort zone. It is not easy for me to socialize or express my feelings. I am a very private person and would much rather be a wallflower in social settings.
I am the same way and I count on you for the same.


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mo3,
Originally Posted By: motherof3
II am just counting on all of you to push me out of my comfort zone. It is not easy for me to socialize or express my feelings. I am a very private person and would much rather be a wallflower in social settings.
I am the same way and I count on you for the same.


Don't worry. I'll smack both of you around if I have to. wink


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(((MO3)))

Just checking on you to make sure you are ok...Haven't seen you around for a couple of days - Hope your New Year is going fantastic!! smile


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I guess I'll just follow Serenity around tonight, checking on others... LoL

MO3 - How are ya, hon? I haven't seen you in the alt, either.

Doing ok?


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Thanks for checking guys. I have been out of town.

I will catch up with you all in the next day or two.

(((hugs)))


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