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I will perform in a public setting with my guitar and voice.

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I will stop whining to my friends that I'm not getting any wink

I will take the Texas bar exam.

I will be the best mom I can for my kids.

I will learn to cook.

I will try to stop caring about neatness.

I might start stalking robx because his prickishness is hot. wink

I will look forward to the second decade of the 21st century and all the good things in store for me.

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I will not let my sitch get me down.

I will detach.

I will say and do only things I can be proud of.


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Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
I will stop whining to my friends that I'm not getting any wink

I will take the Texas bar exam.

I will be the best mom I can for my kids.

I will learn to cook.

I will try to stop caring about neatness.

I might start stalking robx because his prickishness is hot. wink

I will look forward to the second decade of the 21st century and all the good things in store for me.



"...I might start stalking robx because his prickishness is hot. ;)"

- there's that social interaction a few of us talk so much about on this site ;-)

(rob thinks about taking a cold shower after someone refers to his "prickishness" as hot - things could be worse!)

- You're beautiful SG, don't let anyone tell you different. wink

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Things I will continue to do with more resolve:

Detach
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Work on me and take care of me

NEW things I resolve to do:

Reach out to people more. I’ve never been good at it, which is why I don’t post much here. I’ve always felt like I don’t want to burden other people by asking for help. That is going to change.

Get involved with my community and STOP THINKING IT’S ALL ABOUT ME. Every month I will find a new charitable organization to which I can lend a hand. I have found my first for January; a food bank that needs help collecting donations of non-perishable foods.


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Originally Posted By: Norm914
Things I will continue to do with more resolve:

Detach
GAL
Work on me and take care of me

NEW things I resolve to do:

Reach out to people more. I’ve never been good at it, which is why I don’t post much here. I’ve always felt like I don’t want to burden other people by asking for help. That is going to change.

Get involved with my community and STOP THINKING IT’S ALL ABOUT ME. Every month I will find a new charitable organization to which I can lend a hand. I have found my first for January; a food bank that needs help collecting donations of non-perishable foods.


- with all the people that post advice on this forum, this should give you a clue that alot of people are willing to help if you allow them, heck even if someone acts as a sounding board when you need to talk out loud, that's extremely helpful, in the end don't be afraid to ask for help, the worst thing that could happen is that people can say NO but if you don't ask for help you are just saying NO to yourself

Happy New Year Norm ;-)

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I'm still having problems when I try to quote. Ugh!

Robx, all women love a prick. lol

Norm, please continue to post. We are all here to support each other. We can learn from your sitch too.

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I will respect myself enough to let go of people who don't respect or value me. And I'll be OK with it.

I'll know that I'm worthy of respect, value, and compassion...whether or not I get them from others. If I don't get them from others, it's necessary to feel MORE worthy...not less.

I'll trust myself to act in my best interests and in the best interests of my children.


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
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Originally Posted By: antlers
I will respect myself enough to let go of people who don't respect or value me. And I'll be OK with it.

I'll know that I'm worthy of respect, value, and compassion...whether or not I get them from others. If I don't get them from others, it's necessary to feel MORE worthy...not less.

I'll trust myself to act in my best interests and in the best interests of my children.


I will respect myself enough to let go of people who don't respect or value me. And I'll be OK with it.

F!@#$%* AWESOME!!!!

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I'm going to look for ways to be passionate.


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