Wrong choices means getting married. I had second thoughts a few months before the wedding, and called it off. Wrote it off to cold feet and got married anyway. Our honeymoon was kind of a bust, only ML once in the 8 days we were away. The sex life went down from there, and I think I ended up harboring a lot of resentment over the years over it. Trying hard to let go, but frankly the loving feelings are kind of gone.
The kids are all our biological kids.
Mrs. GGB has kind of lost her sense of self. Her identity is pretty much "wife and mother of 6". Trying to help her figure out who she is and to be happy with herself. I don't think it can be fixed until she figures that part out.
