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Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? avermont #1905453 12/31/09 04:04 PM
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rockedworld Member R Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,256	You can do it Aver! Enjoy your evening, focus on the people you are with and you will be ok! I'll be raising a glass for you as well, and wishing every good thing for your for the new year. I think all of us on these boards are happy to see '09 bite the dust... I know I am. It was the year from hell for me and I am choosing to believe for better things in the coming year. I hope that is your experience as well!

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? avermont #1905470 12/31/09 04:15 PM
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Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	Originally Posted By: avermont Wow--where are these tears coming from? I'm suddenly into a major cry... It is very important to let them all out and just feel the feelings. Do not try to figure out why. They have been stuffed and just need to come out. You will feel better after they are released.... HUGS "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? Ready2Change #1905473 12/31/09 04:19 PM
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OP avermont Member A Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690	Thanks, guys. Just working my way thru my sister's kleenex supply... Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? avermont #1905475 12/31/09 04:21 PM
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rockedworld Member R Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,256	You'll be ok. I've cried more than I thought humanly possible this year. But, R2C is right... you need the release. Hugs!

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? rockedworld #1905772 12/31/09 09:27 PM
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chatterbug Member C Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 2,757	Me too. Cried a river. Now I know I can cry. Never knew that about myself before. Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? chatterbug #1905776 12/31/09 09:29 PM
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Ready2Change Member R Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 9,350 Likes: 310 Colorado	~40 years of tears needing to coming out..... "What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? Ready2Change #1905799 12/31/09 10:02 PM
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maple Member M Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 139	((((avermont)))) I am overjoyed to see the end of '09 and look forward to a new year - a new fresh start. Enjoy the rest of your evening at your sisters. Me: 42, H: 43 Daughters: 7,5 Together: 16 Married: 9 Jan 2010- Piecing Fen 2013 ????

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? maple #1905804 12/31/09 10:07 PM
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Serenity13 Member S Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,983 Florida	(((Aver))) Happy New Year to you - May 2010 bring you nothing but peace and happiness! May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? Serenity13 #1905896 01/01/10 12:53 AM
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OP avermont Member A Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690	Maple, Rocked, R2C, CB, --everyone-- Thanks so much for rooting me on. After the tears, we went sledding with the kids, which was great fun. Had some thoughts about Uncle X would have been great with the kids on the sleds, but each time said: too bad for him! I will call some friends back home at midnite their time. And cheer for all of here as the New Year finally starts. Love and peace to all- Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process

Re: how to 180 when you've been too independent? chatterbug #1905972 01/01/10 02:52 AM
Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690 A avermont OP Member
OP avermont Member A Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 690	Never cried? not even at Hallmark commercials and when Bambi's mother dies? And I thought I had a tough shell! Spent an hour wrestling with 3 little kids; dinner soon and maybe some kid videos. Hope you are doing something fun and good for yourself. Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process

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