Ok, do I let her initiate family time (she probably will not)? The last thing I want to do is pursue, just to be her friend. That is what I was trying to do.

Me41 W43
M9 T13
S8 D6
Bomb 1/4/08
EA Discovery 7/10/08
S 6/13/09
2nd EA/PA Discovery 7/15/09 (same guy)
D-Day 3/8/10