my H contacted me and asked for money...again! In that same conversation, he asked if I would be willing to consider doing this without lawyers. He said he couldn't afford one. I asked him if he really thought talking about divorce in the same conversation he asked for money was a good idea. His reply, I guess not.
I know it's difficult, but everytime you engage in a conversation w/your H you will lose something. He will gather that you're still there for him & relax.
I haven't read your entire thread, so I don't know if there's an OW. I can tell you that there are all the signs there is someone in the wings.
When I first came on here & someone suggested there was OW, I was convinced they were mistaken...they weren't.
That's why it's such an advantage to know what you're ealing with. Forgive me if you've covered this already.
My computer isn't working correctly, I can't see what I'm typing, so I'm not very thorough.
Sunny
As a side note, my H has been calling all day to "take" about our settlement agreement.
There is no reason I can think of to answer that call on New Years Eve.
