Ok, Im going out tonight to the aforementioned comedy show (w my dad, but hey, who cares!) and not with H who was lukewarm at best about my offer - so I'm going to try to get all dolled up and see if H notices. He rarely notices those things (something that was a problem from our M before) so I have avoided the whole dressing up and going out thing. But hey, if I feel good, maybe H will notice? Who knows.