I am not sure how they can throw it away. My husband did the same thing and I do not have an answer for him either.
However, as a wife, I can tell you that the more independent I am, the more self confidence I gain and the less I need a cheating H around.
If I were forced to be away from him, I would actually be even more detached from him than I am.
Fact is, the only thing your wife knows about you since you were charged is what she hears from friends and family. What do you think they are saying about you? That you are sad and depressed and can't live without her? What do you think she wants to hear about you?


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11