Hang in there Kev. It'll get better for you eventually. It may get nasty, even real nasty, enroute to better things. Persistence and perseverence are omnipotent.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
Hang in there Kev. It'll get better for you eventually. It may get nasty, even real nasty, enroute to better things. Persistence and perseverence are omnipotent.
Thanks antlers. The same for you buddy and Happy New Year to you.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I contacted an attorney that was recommended to me. Waiting to hear back. I will be contacting more as well.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
When you start firmly standing up to W and not let her cake eat anymore she will get really nasty. Too bad, so sad! I got duped again...tried to see the best in exh and its all for a reason and for him to continue to cake eat. Starting over NOW....!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
When you start firmly standing up to W and not let her cake eat anymore she will get really nasty. Too bad, so sad! I got duped again...tried to see the best in exh and its all for a reason and for him to continue to cake eat. Starting over NOW....!
Not a problem from this point on. I will jump over to your thread and see what happened.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I have been reading your situation for quite awhile waiting patiently for "this time"...God has finally opened your eyes and now you can see clearly what many precious people how been trying to tell you. You will look back at your situation Kevin, and thank God for it. You are going to be a stronger person through this trial, and you will also be able to help other people in a similar situation. "The thief cometh not, but for to steal,and to kill, and to destroy: I am dome that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly John 10:10. Satan can't steal, kill or destroy your peace unless you give it to him.
As you enjoy your daughters, friends and focus on Jesus, God will be glorified in the end. Forgive your W, give this entire situation to God and move on to your new beginning in 2010.
God Bless You
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".
W just called again, and did not leave a voice mail. I didn't answer and again will not be calling her back. I am not sure why she keeps calling if it is not important enough to leave a voice mail.
Kind of annoying really.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I am looking forward to getting out of here and enjoying my evening tonight. woot woot!!
Time to bring in the NEW YEAR!!!
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...