1. There is nothing to talk to her about. You appear to have no loose ends that she cannot close on her own (retirement savings and separation papers). Talking to her serves you no purpose and obviously serves her a purpose (otherwise she wouldn't be asking). That in itself is a reason not to.
2. This is all about control - of you, of the house or the sitch. Whatever. It's about control for her. Another reason not to indulge her in it.
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And always remember. If things are going great. WAS's eyes thoughts actions do not point in your direction. Cause who needs LBS when life is perfect.
I however have the added guilt of a D so I cannot tell if it's me she is interested in or D. That possibly didn't sound right but I hope you know what I mean!
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But nothing will be as hard as D-Day.
Indeed. That is the one I am dreading emotionally.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
