Just reading along as usual. Things are not rosy....well they sound stable at least which is more than we could say 4 - 5 months ago. Sometimes we forget how far we came...it wasn't too long ago that even thinking about having your h in the apt. would be out of the question. I remember when we all started posting here and the veterans would say that DBing takes time...I think there was even a mathematical formula. Well, I imagine that piecing is no different....trust can not be rebuilt overnight. I am not sure I understand what remains "open" between you. As we enter a new decade, you are one of the few who has a real shot at reconcilling and moving forward with your spouse and your family intact. Not many here can say the same. I hope you can find inner peace in the new year. An inner peace that will enable you to slowly regain trust in your H and start shining again.
Happy New Year to you too sweets! I have a feeling 2010 will bring me something big, eek! With Jupiter in pisces (planet of expansion and creation!) it should bring something big for you too.. or make us big haha, so dont eat too many cakes :-)
Hey stable is good, I take it that means he is stil there then... You're kids must be thrilled. Best present ever. Enjoy exchanging gifts (is that tommorow, new years days, Santa's nameday !?) xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
In the middle of winter I at last discovered that there was in me an invincible summer. -Albert Camus
Happy New Year Kalni.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
