Guess what? He left years before the divorce. He is consistent in his disregard for you and your child.
His personal life has been his business for three years. Finding out after the fact that he was involved with someone during the marriage is hurtful, but once again consistent with his actions.
How do you let go of the hurt? Why does this keep hurting so much?
It's time for you... for you to work on you. For you to take all that energy and angst you spend on him and give it to you, to your daughter.
He is the past. Giving him prime real estate in your mind will not fix anything, will not bring any understanding or validation.
