I think patience is another thing that I have to learn as well. For the 4 days around Christmas, H actually stayed home. He didn't want to do much, I tried to give him space although he did play some board games with me. Now this weekend 'poof' full MLC run away behavior. I'm spending the New Year with friends and I guess he has to try to find his own way. Started to get a bit hopeful with him being here 4 days with no major blowups - but now gone again. I should follow my own advice and remind myself that its a long road.
I hope your 2010 brings you all you wish for! I'm so ready to put 2009 to bed and hopefully never to have to relive some of that anxiety, pain and anger again.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
