I am so sorry lost. I remember what a blow finding out about the OW was to me.
Tomorrow is a new year and you should start it back in your home. Start packing today and show up January 1st at your home. You belong in the home with your children. If your wife wants to be with the OM, she can do it in her new home. If she is in the whirlwind of the affair, she is not being a good mother.


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11