Bingo. But Newmama. You gotta do these things for yourself. The rest occurs natually. And if H does not notice this. Then someone else will. If you ever decide to go down that path.
Take away his acts of service. U need to learn to do these things if your become fully seperate anyways.
Plan A. I think your beginning to truly understand this. And if you ever drop the rope....
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!