I am finding that the less contact I have with ex, the less he has with the kids. He also cannot handle any rejection from the kids. If they question his behaviors, he backs off from whoever did the questioning. So yes, they are like spoiled brats. If they don't get their way they act soooo very immature.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11