I have been reading your situation for quite awhile waiting patiently for "this time"...God has finally opened your eyes and now you can see clearly what many precious people how been trying to tell you. You will look back at your situation Kevin, and thank God for it. You are going to be a stronger person through this trial, and you will also be able to help other people in a similar situation. "The thief cometh not, but for to steal,and to kill, and to destroy: I am dome that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly John 10:10. Satan can't steal, kill or destroy your peace unless you give it to him.
As you enjoy your daughters, friends and focus on Jesus, God will be glorified in the end. Forgive your W, give this entire situation to God and move on to your new beginning in 2010.
God Bless You
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".