Oldtimer, I understand what you are saying about the counseling. She agreed to this though. I do feel detached. Before when she would get angry it would affect the rest of my day. Now, it doesn't phase or suprise me. The other thing is, I would engage her when she's angry before and it would always be a big arguement. The main reason I want her to go to counseling is to see from an objective point of view how she is controlling. Thanks for your thoughts on this.
So, she called a bit ago and asked if my daughter had called me. I said, no isn't she with you? She said, I'm out right now, I just got a Brazilian wax done. Ok, my first thought was who for and why are you telling me this but I didn't ask. So, I wrapped that conversation up pretty quick and hung up. So, I'll ask the question, do ladies get this done for comfort or for show? And why do you suppose she would tell me something like this?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!