Hope and heartache

[ClingingToHope]

C-Bart. I disagree on the few nice guys succeed. What about Coach? There's really few success stories in general. The ones I saw on that forum, all of those people focused on themselves and getting better and let the other person go.

I get frustrated with the boards because so many focus on busting the affair, busting the affair. What if there is no affair? And in any case, that again puts all your focus on W.

I agree I was a doormat from May through July and maybe into October. I don't think I've been a doormat since.

And W's choices are coming home to roost.

My job is to get to the point where I don't care about her choices except when it comes to the girls.