quick intro. I have been seperated from my wife of 7 years (t10) . I have been db'ing and have been friendly, we have gone out a few times with the kids together and done fun stuff.
Tonight we went bowling with some mutual friends and the kids, when it finished she started crying and said she was finding it really hard and didn't think we should continue to see each other......
what do i do now , i was tempted to phone her and say i was willing to do whatever to make things work and that i still loved her etc, but i don't know if i should or should i wait or should i do something else....please help !!
Thanks for replying she announced the seperation The usual i don't love you , been unhappy for a year , doesn't want to continue , i was not talking kissing etc
me 37 w 37 s8 d6 bomb 09/21/09 IDLY I move out 10/04/09
sorry to find you here on this board,,,, read, read, read, read,,, the posts here. There are plenty of wise folks willing to pass on excellent advise.. you will see Vets referred to often on this board,, hardest part after listening to them is ACTING on it..take some time and read thru the situations, you may feel unique but most of these stories share some very common themes...
My biggest mistake was moving out of the Marital home,, I strongly advise against doing it. Period.. If you want the M work on it follow DB, and implement it..
3 months (i moved to my mums) Yes all the signs for OM , but i am sure that there hasn't been much chance the last 2 weeks . I found a xmas card that said LOVE from me on it , she then hid it and i asked why she hid it. She said it was from a friend that wants to start something more with her , but she hasn't slept with him and would see in the new year what she was going to do
me 37 w 37 s8 d6 bomb 09/21/09 IDLY I move out 10/04/09
I am so sorry lost. I remember what a blow finding out about the OW was to me. Tomorrow is a new year and you should start it back in your home. Start packing today and show up January 1st at your home. You belong in the home with your children. If your wife wants to be with the OM, she can do it in her new home. If she is in the whirlwind of the affair, she is not being a good mother.
M:38 H:42 T:20 M:19 D:18 S:17 MLC: Sometime in 2007 OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07 OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009 Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009 D final: 07/09/11
